Saturday, February 23, 2013



Peace be upon all of you. Assalamu’alaikum.




A lot of people have asked me how I am. My updates. I am thankful to have people who are concerned about my wellbeing. My standard answer?: 

Alhamdulillah, I’m progressing well and recovering slowly. Praises to God for all the blessings. Thankful for the gift of being a mother. Jibrael’s mother.
 
That is how I feel. That is an honest answer but only a little part of it. It doesn’t reflect everything I feel. Honestly, what is a very simple and well-meaning question does not have an easy answer, at least for me. And I still haven’t figured how to answer that question ever since I was in the hospital until today. 

It has been a roller coaster of a journey emotionally. The untold joy, feeling and experience of being a mother for the first time, then suddenly being put under strict bedrest in the hospital on your birthday when you thought everything would be fine, having to fight and struggle for 78 days to preserve your beloved child’s and your own life, going through an emergency c-section when you least expected it, the greatest feeling of delivering your baby safely into this world, being able to see and talk face to face to your baby for a brief moment before having to say goodbye and then having to straight away grieve and recover in confinement without your child has just been a lot to take. I gave everything that I had. It is a mixture of all kinds of feelings, mentally and emotionally. 

For this whole experience that God has put me through, I would not trade or exchange it for anything. A friend asked me if I could turn back time without being able to change the outcome, would I choose to go through this again? Without hesitation I answered that I would do it all over again. I understand not everyone will ever get to know how I feel exactly or would want to, in the same circumstances.


Sunday, February 10, 2013



This is a follow up to my previous post [ Patience, Perseverance, Relief of Mothers (P.P.R.o.M) ] on my story of the first steps, struggles & fights of becoming a mother to one of God’s greatest miracle Putri Jibrael Zumirrah. My sweet angel, my little princess.

What I can say is that many things has happened since then. Beautiful moments to be cherished till the end of time. I wish to keep this post very short. I will try to share my feelings, emotions, and details of what happened before, during and after in another post, God willing.

Someone told me that since my water broke very early in my pregnancy (when I was roughly four months’ pregnant), in a way I have been in prolonged labour ever since. I have had contractions and bleeding at different times throughout my lengthy hospital stay. At around 5 p.m. on 13th January 2013, I felt contractions stronger than any other contractions I’ve felt before. Contractions I could no longer ignore. I tried, but the contractions grew stronger and stronger and at around 8.30 p.m. I finally told the doctors. The doctors monitored me and decided that I had to undergo an emergency c-section at 3.40am.

I gave birth to my daughter on 14th January 2013, at 4.17 a.m.

She came out of my tummy beautifully. The delivery was wonderful. Peaceful, serene, calm. Just as I prayed for. Even better. God always knows best. It is the most amazing moment in my life and will forever be etched in my heart and mind. I remember every single detail vividly but it is just too beautiful an experience to describe. All Praises to the Most Merciful, the Giver, the Most Generous.


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