Surprise! A special birthday post for Uncle K : Expect the Unexpected XII
11:39:00 AM
Just 2
nights ago, the Tuesday on the 1st of April 2014 was my brother’s 23rd birthday. My husband was in Laos for work since last Monday morning. The rest
of us siblings planned to surprise Khairul with a cake.
So my SIL Syahira
suggested a Victorian sandwich cake made by her friend as the normal cake we
usually get for birthdays would be either chocolate indulgence, chocolate
cheese or chocolate banana cake. Basically it’s a sponge cake, topped with
strawberries and filled with strawberry jam and delicious cream. Yummy. Thanks
to Sya, we finally tried something new!
I went to
get some fancy candles near my office after work.
My mother
cooked green curry since we said we were going to have dinner at home.
After we
were done with dinner and were just chit chatting as usual, I couldn’t hide and
blushed when I suddenly busted laughing and pretended I was blushing because of
a facial mask I just wore. Because Khairul came out of the kitchen and asked us
“whose ice lemon tea was in the fridge”. The cake was in the fridge! In my
mind, he would have seen the cake in the fridge since he just opened up the
fridge. I could have been a better actress by ignoring it but I couldn’t
contain it and laughed about the ‘facial mask’ I wore. Cover up, fail. Gosh!
Khairul
being polite and thoughtful did not show that he guessed anything.
My dad
played the role of distracting Khairul upstairs before we surprised him with
the cake. It was quite kelam kabut and funny, come to think of it. I don’t know
what they did upstairs.
When the
candles were already lit, my dad called Khairul down for a discussion.
Khairul
came down. Before he could see us in the dark, we sung happy birthday! He did
not seemed surprised but just smiled all the way. Haha.
He
actually expected it all along.
Just
before he blew the candles on the cake, he made a silent prayer while closing
his eyes. (I am pretty sure I’m included in the prayer as well together with
the whole family :p hehe)
Just
before the night ended and just before Khubayb my husband came back from KLIA
(he was stuck in a massive jam) Khairul made my mother and I cry.
My dad and
the rest pushed him to give a short speech. Instead, he wrote an impromptu
poem. He typed it on his phone for about 5 minutes and read it. I asked my
youngest brother Hariz to record it using my camera. Here’s a video of it for
memories sake :)
It teared
me.
Heartfelt.
Khairul always makes me cry during events like birthdays or raya! It must be because
I used to make him cry when he was a baby! Bad sister. Hehe.
All in
all. It was a quality time well spent at home, fun and heartfelt.
Anyways,
To My
brother Raja Khairul Anwar,
Putri Jibrael
Zumirrah’s uncle K,
Thanks
for being there as a younger brother, my eldest guy sibling after me. You are 7
years younger than me but you don't seem like it most of the time. Not saying
that you look older or anything but it's just that you are very matured, thoughtful,
responsible & reliable as a young man. You will always be the baby brother
I grew up with, but there are times when I forget that and see you as my elder
brother instead especially in my time of weaknesses through difficult times or
hardships.
This
past few years have been a trying time for us but you've proven to always put
family above everything else and that puts me to shame at times. When I forget,
you remind me. I have learnt a lot from you.
I
remember how what you wrote in the black book always made me smile in the
hospital and after I was out from the hospital. J
#strength4jibrael
Here is
the note you wrote for Jibrael 4 days after I was admitted into the hospital
carrying Jibrael, four days after my birthday.
I
remember, there was a moment in the middle of the night at the hospital after
Jibrael left this world when you held down my shoulders, shook me up to remind
me of the truth. I was tearing and weeping but you shook me out of it. It was
just you and me at that time. Abang Khubayb was at the surau. I was looking for
him. I felt empty. But, you were so strong. Thank you for being strong for Abang
Khubayb, me and Jibrael at that time. You told me, you feel like crying but you
could not, you contained it at that time, because you had to be strong for me
and the rest of the family. You did really well. I will never forget that
moment.
You
were there when they pushed me into the dependency unit, just before they
pushed me into the labour room. You were blessed to witness Jibrael's strength
and beauty when she was still alive in the NICU. I remember I introduced Jibrael
to you as “Uncle Khairul”. She must be smiling for her Uncle K from up above
kan as you read this and for all the things you have done for her, me and Abang
Khubayb? :)
It’s
your final year reading law this year and I pray all the best for you always.
Continue being the responsible and caring son and brother that you are now and
insyaAllah you’ll be a good husband and a good father to your kids too one day.
InsyaAllah
Nina and Abang Khubayb will be there for you always. Happy Birthday from both
of us. May God grant you eternal happiness and bless you with His Love and
contentment always. May we all reunite in Jannah. Jibrael will get to meet his
Uncle K again insyaAllah. Love you very much my dear brother, Khairul.
Below are the photos from the memorable night. :)
PEACE & LOVE!
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This post is a continuation of the following posts:-
Expect the Unexpected XI : Death
Expect the Unexpected XI : Death
Counting Down the Days : 14.1.14 : Expect the Unexpected X
Drawing of My Angel, Baby Jibrael : Expect the Unexpected IX
Friday the 1st of November, 2013 : Life, death, reminders and celebration : Expect the Unexpected VIII
Expect the Unexpected VII : The PPROM Week
Expect the Unexpected IV : Happiness & Sorrows : The Experience, The Way Out & My Daugther
Expect the Unexpected VII : The PPROM Week
Expect the Unexpected VI : My Beautifully Traumatic Experience : Beautiful Jibrael
Expect the Unexpected V : How Do You Deal with Loss?
Expect the Unexpected IV : Happiness & Sorrows : The Experience, The Way Out & My Daugther
Expect the Unexpected III : The Training at the Hospital
Expect the Unexpected II : My Besfriend's Late Mother, My 50-50, My 2012 Birthday Gift, My Late Grandmothers & My Dad's Accident
Expect the Unexpected I : The Call, the Painting, The Gift of Love, The Place & The Office.
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Oh God,
cleanse our hearts
from hypocrisy (nifaq),
cleanse our hearts
from hypocrisy (nifaq),
our actions
from pride (riya' / showing off),
from pride (riya' / showing off),
our tongue
from lying,
from lying,
our eyes
from watching treachery.
from watching treachery.
For surely You know what is hidden within.
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waa.. so sweett
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